A teenager becomes severely depressed and preoccupied with death.
A father of three is laid off and becomes despondent.
An elderly woman, married for 50-some years, is suddenly widowed and wonders if life is worth living.
Unfortunately, suicidal depression “happens to young and old, rich and poor,” according to the American Association of Suicidology. While “there is no typical suicide victim,” there are common warning signs:
*Talking about committing suicide.
*Difficulty eating or sleeping.
*Preoccupation with death and dying.
*Increasing drug or alcohol use.
*Loss of interest in personal appearance.
The list goes on. And frequently, friends, family members and colleagues get caught up in a cycle of pain and helplessness, feeling at a loss as to what to do.
As Jews, our mission is clear. Our tradition tells us that if we save one life, it’s as if we’ve saved the world.
We must get rid of the stigma attached to suicidal depression, and take steps to deal with the pain of those afflicted as well as their friends and family.
Fortunately, a number of resources are available. The Bay Area Suicide and Crisis Intervention Alliance offers information on local services, plus links to the American Association of Suicidology Web site (listed on Page 36A).
In addition, the Jewish community is beginning to bring suicidal depression out of the shadows, connecting Jews to their faith and to local resources.
Organizations such as the Bay Area Jewish Healing Center recognize that spiritual care is often a vital component in treating those who are grappling with despondency. The organization also cares for the caregivers and the bereaved.
But more is needed.
Rabbis and clergy persons need to work with mental health professionals, recognizing that a combination of faith and counseling can make the difference between life and death.
We cannot afford to hide our eyes to this sad, yet ever-present scourge.