News Helping disabled Israeli teenagers become bnai mitzvah Facebook Twitter Email SMS WhatsApp Share By J. Correspondent | June 13, 1997 Sign up for Weekday J and get the latest on what's happening in the Jewish Bay Area. TEL AVIV — Hundreds of Israeli children celebrate their bar and bat mitzvahs every week, and 13-year-old Asher Lissogorsky did not want to be an exception. In November, Asher, a handsome but frail boy with a radiant smile, realized his dream before two dozen relatives and friends. Asher has cerebral palsy. He has no control over his voice or limbs, and he can see nothing but shadows. When called up to the Torah at a Masorti-Conservative synagogue in the heart of Tel Aviv, the wheelchair-using teen "recited" the blessings by pressing a special, automated vocal device with his head. Although the voice on the tape was not actually Asher's, the expression on the boy's face as he waited for the exact moment to chant the blessings spoke volumes about his determination to officially enter the ranks of Jewish adulthood. While bar and bat mitzvah programs for disabled children have been operating for two decades in the United States, only one such program, introduced in 1994 by the Masorti-Conservative movement, is available in Israel. This program has enabled about 120 physically or developmentally disabled Israeli boys and girls to take an active role in their bar and bat mitzvahs, usually in a group ceremony. Earlier this month, 11 children with moderate mental retardation were called to the Torah, according to Judith Edelman-Green, director of the Masorti movement's bar-bat mitzvah program for the special child. "Some spoke their blessings, some read them, some used voice output machines like Asher, one was helped by a member of the youth group of the Masorti movement. There is such a sense of awe at these ceremonies, and a wonderment at the wisdom of Jewish tradition…The parents and teachers alike were very moved and the students were grinning ear to ear." Although Israeli society is progressive when it comes to special education, "few severely disabled Israelis have had a full-fledged" bar or bat mitzvah, says Edelman-Green. "In most cases, Israeli families simply don't know that such an option is available." Some parents "assume that it's impossible," she adds, because some religious authorities "say that severely disabled kids are exempt from the obligation" of having the ceremony. While the Masorti movement continues to seek recognition for its religious institutions in Israel, its bar and bat mitzvah program has received Ministry of Education funding since the summer of 1995. The ministry's approval was "a very significant step of recognition for the Masorti movement as a whole," Edelman-Green says. The program provides intensive one-on-one instruction to disabled children, regardless of their physical and intellectual limitations or religious background. Asher, the most disabled child to enter the program, had special needs. "Many children who can't speak simply point to the blessings, but since Asher can't see, we decided to use a machine with a microphone next to his ear," says Edelman-Green. "Working with his Torah teacher as well as his speech clinician, we were able to tailor a service that was just right for Asher." Putting on a tallit "was Asher's idea, as was his request for a kiddush cup. Believe me, he knew what was happening from beginning to end." Had Asher's mother not read about the Masorti program in a local magazine, he would not have become a b'nai mitzvah. "We're not religious, but we had been told that according to Orthodox law, children like Asher can't have a bar mitzvah," says Ada Lissogorsky. "I didn't know anything about the Masorti movement until I read the article." Holding her son's hand after the ceremony, her eyes glistening with tears as relatives and friends smother Asher with kisses, his mother says, "We will never forget this beautiful day. It's hard to tell exactly what Asher is feeling, but I know he is happy." J. Correspondent Also On J. Organic Epicure Their grandmothers’ notes became a Mexican Jewish cookbook Local Voice Many politicians today love to make a scapegoat of others Film Lamb Chop and Israel star in Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival Israel Israelis are decorating sukkahs with symbols of post-Oct. 7 crisis Subscribe to our Newsletter I would like to receive the following newsletters: Weekday J From Our Sponsors (helps fund our journalism) Your Sunday J Holiday Bytes