Rabbi Menachem Creditor and Neshama Carlebach
Rabbi Menachem Creditor and Neshama Carlebach

Berkeley activist rabbi Menachem Creditor to marry singer Neshama Carlebach

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Rabbi Menachem Creditor met Neshama Carlebach 10 years ago when the popular Jewish singer headlined a concert at Creditor’s shul, Congregation Netivot Shalom in Berkeley. They struck up a friendship, which eventually turned into love and, now, an engagement.

The couple will wed at a ceremony in New York next summer.

By then Creditor, 41, will have completed his tenure at Netivot Shalom and moved to New York, where Carlebach, 43, lives with her two sons.

“Neshama and I stayed in touch over the years,” said Creditor, who has three children from his first marriage. “About a year ago, our conversations somehow shifted. We started seeing each other in a new way. A coalescing of all the sharing we’ve done over the years turned into a beautiful romance. Close friends became best friends.”

Carlebach is a successful singer-songwriter who has recorded multiple albums and toured across North America, Europe and Israel. She is a specialist at performing the niggunim of her composer father, the late Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach.

Creditor, a social justice activist who was arrested with other rabbis protesting at Trump Tower in New York in February, chairs the group Rabbis Against Gun Violence.

Though he, too, sings and writes music, he says he will not likely join forces with Carlebach onstage or in the studio.

“We enjoy witnessing the other shine,” he added. “We have visions for our Judaism and beyond that are strikingly similar, so I imagine we’ll find ways to collaborate. For now, the plan is to create a beautiful family together.”

Dan Pine

Dan Pine is a contributing editor at J. He was a longtime staff writer at J. and retired as news editor in 2020.