NEW YORK — “Entertaining is a lot like gardening,” Linda Burghardt says. “You can’t make mistakes.” In other words, no matter what you do, it’s OK.
Each approach to party planning results in a unique gathering. Through the following suggestions taken from “Jewish Holiday Traditions” by Linda Burghardt, hosts can re-invent Chanukah parties or weave in new ideas with established traditions:
1. Make a guest list of family and friends who light up your life. Celebrating the holiday with friends is fun for people with small families.
2. Using construction paper, show children how to cut out dreidels or candles and create one-of-a-kind invitations by filling in the time and date.
3. For a fancier effect, buy plastic dreidels with removable tops and put a note explaining the party details inside each one.
4. Make a centerpiece by turning a large cardboard box into a dreidel and letting children decorate it. Fill the dreidel with party favors wrapped in blue and white paper, taping mesh bags of Chanukah gelt or real money on top. Attach long ribbons, so it’s easy for children to pull party favors from the centerpiece.
5. If you enjoy grab bags, make gifts yourself, or ask guests to bring something to exchange. Organize two grab bags — one for children and one for adults. Set a price range to ensure fairness.
6. Plan a manageable menu and prepare as many dishes ahead of time as possible.
7. Experiment by making latkes out of sweet potatoes, carrots, zucchini or turnips.
8. For extra-crunchy results, drain latkes on brown paper bags from grocery stores rather than on paper towels.
9. Make Chanukah gelt by melting chocolate and spooning it into rounds on aluminum foil coated with a no-stick spray. When they’ve cooled, wrap individually in silver or gold foil.
10. Ask guests to bring menorahs from home. Provide candles in a variety of colors, sizes and shapes.
11. Place menorahs around the dining room table at the appropriate guest’s place. Say the blessing and light the shamashim — the central candles — together, followed by the other candles. Prepare to be dazzled.
12. Explain each step for guests who’ve grown fuzzy about Jewish customs or who are learning about Judaism.
13. After dinner, read Isaac Bashevis Singer’s delightful “Zlatch the Goat.” Guests will be entertained by this charming tale.
14. Sing songs and remember to copy song sheets for guests, so they can join in.
15. Before the party, take a long bath. Allow 45 minutes to relax. Remember your role as host is to extend warmth and welcome people into your home. Forget perfectionism — it has no place at Chanukah.