Calendar First Person: It was designed in friendship — and crafted with her love Facebook Twitter Email SMS WhatsApp Share By J. Correspondent | January 26, 1996 Special to the Bulletin Amy was the artist and I was the scientist, and our friendship, started in junior high school, never varied in its intensity, but rather waxed and waned with the frequency of our life-cycle events and our geographical proximity. We celebrated vicariously the bar and bat mitzvah of our respective children because the artist lived in the East and I lived in the West. Who would have thought that fate, a job change, and the prospect of my second marriage would soon intervene and intertwine our lives once again! I had attended Amy's wedding, and she was at mine, over 25 years ago, and now, good friends still. Amy bestowed upon me and my groom a special gift…a custom ketubah, jointly designed in friendship and crafted with love. J. Correspondent Also On J. Astrolojew Passover horoscopes: Be brave, but don't be a bully Off the Shelf New novel: tragic journey of gay, Jewish refugee from Sarajevo World ADL chief defends new partnership with United Arab Emirates Torah How can we all live together amicably? Leviticus explains. Subscribe to our Newsletter Enter Email Sign Up